"Anyone could be a self harmer and because there is no accepted, stereotypical profile of a self harmer it means that knowing some of the warning signs might be the only way to deduce if someone is engaging in self harming behaviours. Watching for warning signs can be complicated, however, since self harmers typically carry out their behaviours in secret and go to long lengths to keep others from seeing evidence of their activities. If you are concerned about someone self harming, think about the warning signs below and consider seeking professional help for the person if it seems likely that a loved one could be self harming.
Warning Signs of Self Harming
Very often people think of self harming simply as cutting, or an individual literally cutting their own skin such as with a knife, razor or scissors. Unfortunately self harming includes many more behaviours as well. Poisoning, intentional overdosing, head banging, burning oneself and other acts of self injury and/or self mutilation can all come under the umbrella term of self harming. Warning signs for specific behaviours may be particular to that behaviour, though common signs may include:- Unexplained cuts and bruises on the body.
- Wearing long sleeves and pants, even in warm weather.
- Secrecy, such as keeping a specific drawer locked or hiding specific items.
- A breakdown in typical communication.
- Mood changes or mood swings.
- Changes in eating patterns.
- Changes in sleeping patterns.
- Changes in socialising patterns.
- Evidence of drug or medical paraphernalia.
- Evidence of carrying unnecessary sharp objects, matches or lighters.
- Poor performance or results at school or work.
- Loss of interest in favourite hobbies or sports.
Risk Factors of Self Harming
A number of risk factors may also increase the likelihood of an individual engaging in self harming behaviours, particularly if these risk factors are known to others and are present in conjunction with common warning signs. Common risk factors related to self harming include:- A history of being bullied.
- A history of sexual abuse.
- A history of physical abuse.
- A history of neglect.
- Mental illness in the family.
- Substance abuse in the family.
- Depression.
Stress and Self Harming
Stress in any of its many forms may lead to or exacerbate self harming behaviours in that the individual may find self harming a means of “letting go” or coping with an increase in stress. Common stressors for young people include exams, fitting in, romantic relationships, being selected for a sports team or dramatic production, navigating independence, getting in or going to university, attempting to plan the future and/or choosing a career. Individuals who show evidence of, or fit risk factors for, self harming should be observed closely during times of high stress to ensure their own safety.">teenissues "Warning signs of self harming"<
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